Empowering Days of December 2012

Happy December 1st all!! Want to know when you might be able to get a cosmic boost and what days to watch your “P’s and Q’s”? Then read this month’s report from shuistrologist Ellen Whitehurst! Want more? Go to Ellen’s Facebook page for the shuistrology report for your sign! Enjoy!


Here come the holidays, but this month there will be times when even ole Frosty is going to get hot under the collar.  Silent Nights?  Sometimes.  But then, at others, the clatter that arises might not be up on the rooftop but right inside your own office and/or kitchen too.  The energies this month are kinda complicated since they will bounce back and forth between optimism and obstacles.  Listen, if you do encounter what seems insurmountable think about giving birth in barn with no epidural or midwife close by and then carry on.  You can do it.  In December.  The only time you come against a deal breaker is when you put that boundary in your own head.  This month begs you to work from your heart.  Talk amongst yourselves and then leave room for pie.  And, then, for some of us, breakthrough encounters, experiences or even a life-altering realization that will unleash and unlock a whole new vibration and vision of possibility.  Negotiate.  No black or white, naughty or nice – – negotiate.  And forget about checking that aforementioned list, just check your attitude boo.  Because if you do take time to see all sides then you’ll wave ‘so long’ to this year with a rejuvenated sense of confidence and a renewed and restored optimistic enthusiasm.  And, c’mon, who doesn’t want some confidence for Christmas?

And, just so we’re clear, it’s the YEAR that’s ending, not the world.  Well, wait, the world as we know is changing as we head into the fifth dimension and the Age of Aquarius.  Consciousness is raising and potential for peace and prosperity abounds especially during three particular days of this mostly positive month.  If you want to know when or what to do to take total advantage of these amazing energies then head on over to my Facebook page and read the free Shuistrology for December – my holiday gift to you.  You can find that consciousness raising, exponentially life improving info at (http://www.facebook.com/EllenWhitehurst.)

Now as for the markets and this month’s financials, well, history shows that you can’t go wrong going long gold, frankincense and myrrh.  Or maybe just gold.  Oh, okay, and silver’s ringing my bells too.  But, then again, it IS that time of year.  I don’t believe we’re heading off any cliff, fiscal or otherwise, but I’m not brave enough to bet on it, so, yeah, there’s that too.

From our house to yours, I wish you all – each and every one – a wonderful, safe, beautiful and blessed holiday season filled with magic, miracles and joy.  Joy to YOUR world is our wish for you and yours!  XOXOE

December 2   ………   Sun opposing Jupiter makes this a great day to do some holiday prepping and planning and maybe even a little decorating too.  Feng Shui says that if/when you hang garland, you should always hang it at a ‘smiling’ angle with the ends pointing up creating a small swag.  Speaking of swag, this cure’s got it in spades.  See decorations that have ends hanging down can subtly influence moods and energies to head in that same direction, but things that are hung so that they ‘lift’ do the same to holiday spirits.

December 10   ……..   Mercury the Messenger slides on over into Sagittarius where the chatty planet will stay until New Year’s Eve.  Generous Jupiter in Gemini is in mutual reception to Mercury all month so that means that all your communications, commitments and ideas will be inspirational, expansive and outstanding.  Dream BIG and then share them with anyone interested.  And don’t forget that hanging a round and faceted clear quartz crystal either over where you sit or over your computer on your desk can exponentially help those expansive efforts along.

December 11   ……..   Mercury squaring off against Neptune!  Now, now, why can’t these two just make nice?  As clear as the communications field was yesterday is as cloudy as it could be today.  Cross all your ‘t’s and dot all your ‘i’s while making sure you have the 411 on every little thing.  And then see yesterday’s Shui to help today’s efforts along as well.  Ps…if you’re sending gifts or cards today, just like a certain jolly ranger we know, check that list – – twice.  Or don’t say that I didn’t warn you.

December 13   ……..   SUPER STELLAR HOLLY-DAY!  Today really will feel like a holiday!  And you know you can find out how and why only if you’re a newsletter subscriber.  WHAT?  YOU’RE NOT?  Hurry – – get to www.ellenwhitehurst.com and sign up for my free newsletter so you will never be without this empowering info again!

December 14   ……..   Mercury trine Uranus makes this a brilliant breakthrough sort of a day!  Following hot on the heels of the Super Stellar Day, well, this surely is a swell bunch of days.  If you are flexible and in the flow you will find all sorts of opportunities opening to and for you today.  Keep the front lights on.  Inside and outside the front entryway to your living space.  If you illuminate the pathways for opportunities to find you, they will LIGHT.  YOU.  UP.

December 16   ………   HAPPY HANUKKAH!  Venus squares off against Neptune on this day so celebrations will be best enjoyed if they are easy and simple.  Of course lighting NINE red candles in the ‘FAME’ area will get you some recognition and reward as the year begins to end.  Lighting eight of them will get you blessed.

December 19   ……..   Venus trine Uranus.  A very HAPPY day!  Life is unexpectedly loving and good.  Angels and cherubs are lucky symbols that will bless you life with good will and peace, exactly what today’s energies promise as well!  How about you take an angel under your wing and place some representative of one anywhere in your living and/or sleeping space?  Heaven on earth.  Just like today.

December 21   ……..   Winter Solstice.  Sun enters Capricorn while also sextile Neptune today too.  A most perfect night for an adventure!  Or to decorate the tree with fruit (for a good harvest) and coins (for prosperity) while mistletoe is hung over the doorways to bring healing, peace and love.  OR you can carve an image of the sun into the side of an orange or yellow candle and let it blow your intentions up in smoke.  Or you can do both.  And you should definitely do this:  since today is not the end of the world, but, rather, the beginning of the evolution of expanded consciousness, hop on over to my Facebook page and read the monthly Shuistrology to see what everyone of every sign should be doing to raise their vibe while taking total advantage of this amazing galactic alignment!

December 25   ……..   MERRY CHRISTMAS!  Mars enters Aquarius and Uranus in is Aries.  Sun squares Uranus as well.  What’s it all mean?  Don’t overindulge or give in to overwhelm.  Keep cool, calm and collected and use side lighting or soft candles to keep easy energies flowing.  The scent of cinnamon will do that too!  Just boil a bit of the grated spice in water on the stove or spritz a little essential oil around.

December 28   ……..   Full Moon in sensitive and caring Cancer.  Pay down one debt before the New Year comes calling.  Finishing up this year inviting prosperity to come and live with you during the next new one.

December 30   ……..   Sun conjunct Pluto /  Sun sextile Saturn too.  A great day to find bargains and/or to strike one too.  Keep a little plastic bag of sea salt in your wallet to magnetize more money to it.  Change the salt every 30 days to keep attracting cash and coin.

December 31   ……..   Mercury enters Capricorn.  Mars sextile Uranus.  Mercury sextile Neptune.  There’s a lot of sexting going on today.  Moon in Leo.  Jupiter trine Mars.  HAVE A HAPPY AND WONDERFUL NEW YEAR, these planets promise all same.  And don’t forget to put an image of a red bird by your bed tonight.  Ancient traditions tells that whoever looks upon a red bird first thing New Year’s Day will get only good news all the rest of the following 365!  My son and I wish you a wonderful, happy, healthy, loving and prosperous New Year!

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Now You Can Touch

Staff writer Frank Friedlander discusses “married sex”.


Sex. Did that get your attention? It always does, and it should. In the case of marriage, sex is something that oft becomes forgotten, if not avoided. In other cases yet, it becomes a chore or a routine, something scheduled. I laughed my ass off watching Married With Children back in the day, but no marriage should mimic that of the Bundys.


“So are we going to have sex tonight” is a question that should never be asked. What’s worse is “are we going to have sex this week,” which can become are we going to have sex this month,” and so on, and so forth. If any variations of this question are asked in your household, you’re doing it wrong. The question is really no less ridiculous than asking, “So should we catch a cold?”.


Sex is something that should just happen, and certainly never be penciled into a calendar. It would be ideal to simply take your spouse, rip his or her shirt off, throw them to the bed, couch, or even table at a moments notice, and go to work. Caveman style, minus that whole clubbing them over the head and dragging them off by their hair part.


Sadly, this just isn’t possible in most homes. That type of thing tends to traumatized your children, if you have any. This isn’t to say that spontaneity should be cast away. Once the kids are in bed, or at gramma’s, anything goes; at least it should.


To go beyond that, Sex should be kept fun and interesting. Strive for something new. A new position is always a treat. Playing dress up is also something that adds a hell of a spark to even the dullest bedroom. If you can work props into the equation, even better.


Having sex on a regular basis is the ultimate tension breaker. There are problems that even a wild, sweaty, passionate night of anything goes lovemaking can’t fix. However, if you’re able to have enough wild, sweaty, passionate nights of lovemaking before a marriage reaches that point, you stand a better chance of not reaching said point to begin with.


I understand that there are many marriages in which one or both partners feel as though they are bored with one another from a sexual standpoint, which leads to it becoming dull or routine. Perhaps they should mix things up. It’s not what you do; it’s how you do it. Who knows white kind of deprave type of shit you can get your spouse to do that you never would have imagined.


In an ideal relationship, anything should go. You should be able to do whatever you want to one another, within reason. Good God, there are more things that two people can to one another sexually than imaginable.


The ultimate goal should be that no matter how many years a couple has been married, they shouldn’t be able look at one another without the urge to rip one another’s clothing off and go to town. So tonight, to hell with whatever you have planned. Guys:If the first thing that comes to mind tonight when you think of the word “fantasy” is football, you need help. Gals: you can DVR The Real Housewives of who Gives a Shit and watch it, how about never. When the kids are asleep, get primal, sans the whole clubbing them over the head, and dragging them off by their hair. Unless he or she is into that type of thing, and if so, nice work if you can get it.




Did You Marry Him For Love?

Ideally, you would want to marry for love AND security, but that isn’t always the case with marriages. This week’s post by staff writer Rigby Rat makes a good point in this article about why marriage shouldn’t be a way to fix your life but a way to enhance it. Married couples, did you marry for love?

Probably not.

Susan married because she was rejected by her first love, Julie married to get away from her parents, and Tamara married because he had money.  It took years, but eventually all three hapless hubbies realized something was missing in their marriages.
Could it have been love?

To fill his void, one husband took a mistress, one became a strip-joint junkie, and one filed for divorce – pissing the children off.  What kid wants to be treated like livestock – uprooted from his/her safe haven and shuffled back and forth every other weekend from Mom’s “house” to Dad’s “house”?  I dare you to name one.

When you enter into a relationship with problems (baggage), chances are
your guy will come to resent your disaffection and your issues.  He’ll be thinking,   “Why is she making her past problems my problems?”   Why indeed?

Always remember, your guy is not a shrink, not a white knight, not a band-aid.  He is the object of your affection, desire, respect, and love.  And, if he isn’t?  Then you married him for the wrong reason.

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