Staff writer Rigby Rat continues to discuss the subject of how much size really factors in sexual relationships.
Your penis size makes no difference if she doesn’t sexually desire you. And too often a woman dates a man not because she sexually desires him, but because he fills a void. I know what you’re thinking, “But the sex was hot in the beginning.” I’m sure it was.
Look, everyone knows – when the dating begins – that the sex is radioactive. Right? (At least that’s what he thinks.) But is the sex real? Too often it isn’t because women fake orgasm. They fake orgasm because women know they can’t snag a guy unless the bedroom show is like a Cirque du Soliel extravaganza. And that is why the sex is hot in the beginning. Now you’re thinking, “Then how do I know if she truly desires me?” Good question.
HOW DO I KNOW IF SHE TRULY DESIRES ME?
A. She initiates sex as much as I do.
B. She initiates sex more than I do.
C. She initiates sex outside the bedroom.
D. She initiates sex during the day.
E. It’s way past the dating stage and she still initiates sex.
F. We’ve been married for ________ years and she still initiates sex.
G. All of the above.
You say: “Okay, she doesn’t truly desire me, but I don’t want to give up on her. So, what exactly goes into an orgasm?”
The answer to that question is letter D: I’ll ask her and get back to you. (See DOES SIZE MATTER, Part One, 10/23/12.)
Yep, you need to get inside her head before you get inside her body. And remember, she is not your ex. She is somebody new and different. Which means, what worked for Ginger doesn’t mean it’s going to work for Abbey. Hence, you gotta ask Abbey.
Also, it’s not just what goes into a woman’s orgasm, it’s what DOESN’T go into a woman’s orgasm that matters as well. What doesn’t go into a woman’s orgasm? Again, each woman is different. So, ask her. To help you until then, here are just a few things that don’t go into a woman’s orgasm. Meaning, do the following and rest assured she’ll just lie there like a blow up doll:
1. Lie to her.
2. Text/call your ex-girlfriend.
3. Talk about your ex-girlfriend.
4. Act insecure.
5. Act and talk like a dimwit, prick, etc.
6. Be verbally and physically abusive to her.
7. Treat her like she’s your mother.
8. Emotionally blackmail her to get your way.
9. Set your emotional baggage at her feet.
10. Watch porn.
11. Hang out with your guy friends instead of her.
12. Spend your money on drugs and alcohol.
No doubt, many women could add to this list – a few guys, too. And you should.
Bottom line, penis size is the least of your worries when it comes to pleasing a woman. Women need to be pleased in other ways. First and foremost, they need to feel your love. Love is what you inwardly are, and what you outwardly do. Love can be real, love can be an illusion. Many times after dinner and a movie and a roll between the sheets, it’s an illusion. Yet, you both mistakenly call it love. Oh, well, live and learn. And the other lesson for today is: penis size only counts in porno movies because porn peddlers need to lure the curious, the insecure, and the fops to sell their movies to.