Whatever happened to the days of flowers and candy on the first date? The days in which no pressure dates during which the most important thing that was happening was the thrill of discovery? The days in which the first kiss was something to aspire to and not just a small step on the way to getting the other person into bed? Sometimes, simplicity isn’t such a bad thing. We’re so caught up in the endgame that we forget the little details along the way. Transfer a few thoughts towards the little things, and you might realize that a little goes a long way.
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Sooooooo true nobody really go on dates and enjoy each others company anymore and get to know each other a little better
I appreciate your comment Ang! Sometimes it seems we want to fast forward through things too much!
Kelleye, you are so right that dating seems to have lost much of it’s charm and value. Maybe when folks talked about ‘free love’ in the 1960’s and ’70’s it was interpreted as ‘no value’. Why would people feel the need to ‘work’ (conversation, multiple dates, phone calls etc…) for something they expect for ‘free’?
You bring up a valid point Margo.
Unless your looking for just a bed buddy then dating is important standards mantality morality goals is the key to knowing weather it is going to work you should know after a couple dates any red flags run logic is also important I don’t know good point
True, sometimes red flags come up quickly, but sometimes people are very good at hiding their “bad”.
Oh the honey moon stage yeah yeah yeah what are they really about
Actually the honeymoon stage is important however be careful
I definitely agree!