Now before any of you think I’m speaking of someone in particular, I’m not. I’m speaking to every man who’s ever spoken to me and has found out that I have an active blog. One of the first things to be noticed on my blog is that it was initially for quite some time a relationship blog. While writing my blog, I’ve usually made it a point to poke fun at myself or publicly fall on my own relationship sword as a way to give some teaching moments but also to show others that the road to love is usually full of obstacles and awesomely bad dates. I never aimed to be one of those writers who basically puts my exes on blast since I would want the same courtesy. Just because we didn’t work out, it doesn’t mean there’s a blog post bull’s-eye on your back. So on behalf of more of the bloggers, relationship and otherwise out there, the people in our lives do tend to provide a point of reference of our material but sometimes it’s the situations and not the people directly involved that make the posts. Rest assured, if you upset me enough to go off on you (royal you) , I’ll do it in person and not on my blog. Ain’t nobody go time for that time bomb.
Complaints are not an acceptable way of making it through life. If you’re moved to raise your voice for a cause, let it be for the right reason and be ready to follow through. You can’t expect change to happen if you’re not willing to light the torch and carry it to the end.
Never be ashamed of your backstory. It is your origin and ensuing journey that has influenced what you are now. You can never be what you are without a beginning.
Though sorrow comes, it does not diminish love. Peace cannot fail to join where there is love.
Eat until you’re nourished. Gorge on knowledge.
Who are you to say there is no glory and you have no power? There is glory in every breath you take, every blink of the eye, every heartbeat. You did not create the earth but you effect every change the earth takes and the future it passes to future generations. What more can you ask for when HE who has given you life has also entrusted you with His second best creation, the world around us?
What is a norm? It is what we let society dictate; if you disagree, challenge it and change the norm.
We do not live in a black and white world. With each passing second, the details shade life in growing colors with more variety than any painter’s palette. When we allow ourselves to choose to take an outlook of a prism, we also widen our understanding of ourselves and others.
The great thing about free will is that you’re free; free to be whatever you want, free to write your story to fit any destiny you want, free to remember and remind yourself that your story is never really over until you craft the ending.
You must know your limits but never limit yourself.